Invite Only

Now just because you are on a self love journey does not mean you have to be by yourself!

Hey loves!

I woke up this morning feeling FULL!!.. GRATE-FULL and BEAUTI-FULL . Want to know why?

Well  you know when you wake up and senses have fully revived… you start to take a look around and take in your surroundings… when I do this… I take in peace, happiness, love, the safe haven God has helped and allowed me to create.

My space is sacred and it should be the same way for you!

Now just because you are on a self love journey does not mean you have to be by yourself all the time, but in order to preserve the work you have done … cause we’ve been working right?

It is time to be selective on who and what will be in YOUR SPACE…

The essence and feel of your space impacts you in ways that can alter your self love journey

I truly believe that your self love journey needs to be supported by a healthy environment

Now let me back up a bit and say this… you will hear me mention self love here and there throughout my blogging journey and here’s why… whether we are single or in a relationship … maintaining your indiviudality and loving yourself will always be important.. In fact it is a requirement in order  to thrive in any interaction with someone else.

Anddd we’re back…

Being selective isn’t easy, but it is worth it…This is the time to find your tribe… people who bring substance in every conversation… that understand reciprocity…who are reliable and trustworthy...

Earlier this year I hosted a girls night titled “ A New Era of Me” and it was EVERYTHINGGGGG!! I invited some of my close friends whom I call sisters , over for a night of just reflecting on 2023, acknowledging milestones and just embracing our journeys of becoming the women we are destined to be.

I flipped my dining room into a gorgeous restaurant Chez Beezsa haha and from the table runner to the dishes used … aesthetic was definitely there.  My meal consisted of mushroom soup for a starter, entree- Argentine shrimp with mussels, baked Mac n cheese, steamed broccoli, rolls, and for dessert… cheesecake topped with caramel drizzle and berries.

And we can’t forget the wine…. Because where there is wine.. there is always conversation haha

I chose a Jazz playlist to seal the ambiance.

My girls came through dressed to impressed and after we ate… we ended the night with a movie… “Waiting to Exhale” because 2023 was a lot… and it was time to let it all go… what a perfect movie for this theme…

When the movie was over… we did a burning ceremony which was just us writing down what we no longer wish to carry on a piece a paper… then took a lighter and lit the paper… as it burned we vocalized” We are letting this go” and dropped it in a bowl of water. Each of us did this and it was liberating… some of my friends had never done this before so it was a new level of emotions unlocked…

I then presented them with a hand written card and a gift to show my appreciation for their sisterhood.

Now if you didn’t know.. Beezsa loves to host and curate gifts so it warmed my heart to see their reactions. I wanted to be sure each gift was intentional along with the words I wrote to each of my girls

Afterwards.. we had a dance party as all girls do haha and retired for the night… The next morning I had a the dining table set for brunch along with a piece of paper and pen next to each place setting… after we ate.. I told them to write a letter to themselves that explained their love for themselves… the unwavering support they will give to themselves and more…

They sealed their letters in an envelope and this would be their reminder for when times are hard and just need a pick me up.

Before they left… we held hands and said a prayer to solidify all that we inhaled and  what we exhaled…. It was truly a beautiful weekend.

And that’s what I’m talking about when I say finding your tribe… where you can flow from one topic to another… From spiritual to shopping …to business goals…

We laughed…We cried… We prayed

So I say all this to tell you … it is not about the quantity of people in your space.. but the quality… After all … the people in our lives are a reflection of ourselves.. so keep that in mind…

A healthy spirit must be nourished by a healthy space… so be selective on who is on your invitation list because we can’t have anyone ruining the Party.. and the party it YOU!!

LOVE YOU!

With Love,

Beezsa